A new conversation for a changing world

What happens
when intelligence
gets intimate?

A provocative, human-centered look at artificial intelligence, sexuality, intimacy, and the relationships we are learning to build.

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The premise

The most important
relationship story
is already here.

We talk about AI like it is a machine. We talk about sex like it is a private act. But the next chapter is about the space between us — and the technologies, desires, and fears that are reshaping it.

In AI and Sex, DJ Gilmore invites us to move past the hype and the panic. The result is an honest, searching guide to how human connection changes when intelligence can be simulated, desire can be designed, and intimacy can be mediated by code.

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Four lenses

Look closer.

Four connected ideas.
One urgent conversation.

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Artificial
intelligence

Beyond the algorithm: what we project onto machines, and what they reflect back.

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02

Sexuality
in code

Desire, agency, and the new rules of attraction when technology gets involved.

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03

The shape of
intimacy

Can something artificial make us feel more seen — or less human?

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04

Our human
relationships

The choices we make now will define how we love, trust, and belong next.

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Technology changes the tools we use to connect. It does not change the fact that connection is what we are looking for.

— DJ GILMORE, AI AND SEX

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Meet the author

DJ Gilmore is
asking better
questions.

Not because the future is easy to predict — but because it is too important to leave to the people building it alone.

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WRITING
THE HUMAN
FUTURE

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Stay curious.
Stay human.

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A book for anyone who wants to understand what comes next — before it arrives.