Artificial
intelligence
Beyond the algorithm: what we project onto machines, and what they reflect back.
↗A new conversation for a changing world
A provocative, human-centered look at artificial intelligence, sexuality, intimacy, and the relationships we are learning to build.
The premise
We talk about AI like it is a machine. We talk about sex like it is a private act. But the next chapter is about the space between us — and the technologies, desires, and fears that are reshaping it.
In AI and Sex, DJ Gilmore invites us to move past the hype and the panic. The result is an honest, searching guide to how human connection changes when intelligence can be simulated, desire can be designed, and intimacy can be mediated by code.
Begin reading ↗Four lenses
Four connected ideas.
One urgent conversation.
Beyond the algorithm: what we project onto machines, and what they reflect back.
↗Desire, agency, and the new rules of attraction when technology gets involved.
↗Can something artificial make us feel more seen — or less human?
↗The choices we make now will define how we love, trust, and belong next.
↗Technology changes the tools we use to connect. It does not change the fact that connection is what we are looking for.
— DJ GILMORE, AI AND SEX
Your next conversation starts here
A book for anyone who wants to understand what comes next — before it arrives.